#ThatAwkwardMoment: When the girl who has a TV show based on her life goes out with a guy who has a movie based on his
#RealDeal: That time I cold called the man that bought my life rights, trademarks, and intellectual property (PT. 2)

#RealDeal: That time I cold called the man that bought my life rights, trademarks, and intellectual property (PT. 2)

It took two phone calls, one friend request, and two Facebook messages to see this incoming call on May 7th - (22 hours after the last Facebook message read "Hey there: I got your messages. I'm just back in the office this week and will call you.")

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#RealDeal: That time I cold called the man that bought my life rights, trademarks, and intellectual property

#RealDeal: That time I cold called the man that bought my life rights, trademarks, and intellectual property

Remember, when the Talk Nerdy To Me announcement came around the first time - I was living on an island. I had walked away from everything choosing love (which was all I was after in the first place). That love unfortunately (or fortunately) did not last, and as I was standing in my new apartment's kitchen on June 30th, 2014, I got an email from my agents (who I had not talked to in over a year) asking if my blog was for sale.

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#NerdsUnite: A session in depression (with reality in question ... & one night at a gay country line dancing club)
Life, Adventures Jen Friel Life, Adventures Jen Friel

#NerdsUnite: A session in depression (with reality in question ... & one night at a gay country line dancing club)

I feel like I've been seeing my life happen in front of me instead of taking control and living it (mostly because I can't believe what I am seeing). I'm tired of being asked "how I am" and hearing the phrase "not good" come out of my mouth on an almost daily basis. I can't hide when I'm depressed, nor at this stage of my life would I actually want to.

I'm sick of framing shit thinking I can be optimistic about it, sometimes you just have to accept that shit is shit, and in this moment I feel knee-deep.

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#FyreFestival: Did I mention I know one of the founders & I'm now featured on their website?
#NerdsUnite: Sex Toys Can Close The Orgasm Gap Once And For All

#NerdsUnite: Sex Toys Can Close The Orgasm Gap Once And For All

The orgasm gap is a highly contested phenomenon in the modern age. Simply put, the orgasm gap refers to the fact that in male-female sexual encounters the orgasm of the male is essentially guaranteed while the orgasm of the female is a bit more up in the air. Stack up this disparity in orgasms over a few dozen sexual encounters and we have ourselves a very legitimate and very easy to pinpoint orgasm gap.

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#NerdsUnite: I'm a mistress in training, can you help me with my foot slave?

#NerdsUnite: I'm a mistress in training, can you help me with my foot slave?

Step one in exploring any sort of fetish is to decide what you are comfortable with. It's not easy in the beginning (because how do you know what you want/like if you haven't experienced it), but I promise you, this will get easier.

Each slave that I had had very specific and different fetishes (all under the umbrella of being a foot fetish). I have had 8 in total over the years (with one that I met with but did not accept).

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#ThatAmazingMomentWhen: I got stopped at TSA because of my dildo ... (did I mention this happened twice?)

#ThatAmazingMomentWhen: I got stopped at TSA because of my dildo ... (did I mention this happened twice?)

By the time he began unzipping (this was only as far as he had gotten at this point), I paused him.

"Sir, I would like to go to the additional screening room," I said loudly.

One, because I'm pretty certain he was hard of hearing and two, because I wanted to be firm.

He looked confused at my request.

"This isn't for me," I explained. "It's for you."

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#TrueStory: I took one of my childhood idols as my date to her own movie screening at the Hollywood Forever Cemetery

#TrueStory: I took one of my childhood idols as my date to her own movie screening at the Hollywood Forever Cemetery

Never one to back down from a dream or goal I want to accomplish, I clicked CONTACT Cinespia's page typing into the form that I wanted to attend with one of the stars of the film and wondered if there were any tickets left.

Emphasis on "wanting" to attend.

Yes, Rachel and I are legit friends, and I planned on inviting her ... but I also hadn't gotten that far yet and had ZERO confirmation if she would even be okay with this. All I had texted her up until this point was asking if she was available on that night (which she was).

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