Fun with #OkCupid: The truth about one night stands (guess who's back, back again)
HAHAHAHAHA!! Guess who I heard from yesterday? Well rather, I reached out to him once I saw he viewed my profile ... Mr. One night stand!
You can read more of how this all started here ... but basically this guy reached out to me on OKC asking if he could tie me up and do very very very naughty things to me. I was a bit meh, at first - frankly because I have given up casual sex, and while the notion of being tied up and beaten around is INCREDIBLY appealing to me (I may run a business but in regards to dating and the bedroom, I could not BE more submissive. Lemme turn the big brain off, man!) - I put it out of my head at first. While I appreciated his effort, I kinda wasn't vibing it. THEN - he totes came back ... ah-gain, which peaked my interest (most people give up), so we started chatting and then he dropped the bomb that he's not going to be back stateside til the end of November (this was October). I was all - DUDDEEEEE!!! So lame!!! You actually caught my attention!! Totes mcgotes lame sauce.
Put it out of my head ... AH-GAIN, even had a few of you asking me about him - and then yesterday when I saw he viewed my profile I reached out to him ...
So there you go. He's not coming back til December. Super duper lame sauce. This guy is freakishly smart too, and broke me down like a mofo! (Understanding social dynamics is a big panty dropper with me.) So, we'll see. He's back ... I'm still not 100% - and who KNOOWWSSS what another 30 days will bring.
#tobedominatedornotthatisthequestion
