#NerdsUnite: Tips to discover if the guy has an existing relationship

#TalkNerdyToMeLover's Ajay Chauhan

It is necessary for every girl to find out if the boy that she is trying to date has an existing relationship or not. This is very much essential so that she can have a wonderful and romantic life. Being a woman, no girl would like to portray herself as chasing the man, instead of the opposite. Hence, asking directly this question to the guy would be a wrong way to portray oneself.

However, there are various simple relationship tipsby which the girl can get a better idea, if the guy is presently involved with another girl or not. She needs to pay close attention to his body language and his talks. Moreover, in the initial stage, it would be better for the girl to think from her mind, then, listen to her heart. Only, then, she would be able to enjoy this relationship. But, if the guy lets out any sign that shows that he is already engaged to someone else, it would be better to take appropriate decisions.

Is he interested to talk more about his ‘friend’?

There might be times, when he would avoid speaking about his friends, the places, where he goes with them, what he does, etc. As a matter of fact, he might be just hiding something. There could be replies like “Yes, I visited the new restaurant with my… friend recently,” there can be a chance that is simply trying cover up another relationship. It could be just anything, right from having a child from an earlier relationship to seeing another woman, which he does not want her to know.

Does he avoid while she makes plans?

There are instances, when people these days have to spend several nights together, working in a row. It could be because of a product launch, or the accounts to be streamlined. But, if he is just not willing to commit towards a timetable, or not seeing in her eyes, while saying a ‘No’, then, there are chances that he does have someone else to be with.

Taking note of his body language

It is known to everyone that most of us tend to communicate with our tone and posture than the words said. It is quite possible for him to smile and be engaging, but his eyes shifting sideways to notice who is watching. In such a case, he would be caught in a defensive posture that would narrate the entire story. There could be times, when he would be a part of some interesting conversation in person, but his mind wandering somewhere else. This might be because that he is already engaged and thinking about her. But, this does not mean that she should conclude that he has a steady relationship already.

Checking out the person for existing relationship can be quite tricky and somewhat tough. But, with patience and proper strategy, it is possible to find out if the person is really single or into steady relationship. Hence, it is very much essential for the girl to make double sure that her doubts are true; otherwise, there are chances of her losing him to suspicion forever.

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Author’s Bio

The author Ajay Chauhan is presently associated with LoveWale and is an expert in writing articles based on building relationships. His articles have helped many couples to have long lasting relationships.