#TakingNotes: When it Comes to Men… Does Size Really Matter?

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Just as some men are boob men and others are ass men, some women like it large, and others prefer more petite- it’s true. So, in short… depends. Depends on the person you’re trying to please.

You’ve heard the “short d**k, big stick” concept of men who are “lacking in the pants make up for it in the pocket,” or “If he drives a red Ferrari, you know that he does have much to show off under the hood.” It’s clearly a sensitivity. Guys will joke about it both ways- advertising their size if they are endowed, and dissing other dudes as being duds because they’re small. But really, what do chicks want?

In one study of over 50,000 heterosexual men and women, 85% of women were satisfied with their partner’s penis size, while only 55% of men were satisfied with their own size. Where is this disconnect coming from?

Aside from the locker room shower, most exposure that men get to others equipment is in porn. Not the most accurate point of comparison! That truly is the only field of work in which you get the job because you are bigger…

The Hard Facts

To get the hard, straight facts (no pun intended) the average male penis, flaccid, ranges from 3.4 to 3.7 inches; erect, from 5.1 to 5.7. The average girth when erect ranges between 3.5 to 3.9 inches.

More than size, technique has a lot to do with satisfaction- which again is specific to the preferences of each individual person.

Too Small?

If you are smaller, don’t stress! Small can still please. Remember that a chick’s g-spot is only about 2-3 inches deep inside her, so you might be the perfect size to hit the spot! You should also hone your talent in other areas- like head (which can seriously create some mind-blowing, head spinning results… even bigger than sex!).

Too Big?

Just to clarify: just because you are the size of a burrito doesn’t mean that you’re God’s gift to women. So please please don’t whip it out and present your package in a “ta-da” fashion as if the chick is lucky. The fact is that she could instead be scared of that thing. If you are larger (yes there IS such a thing as being too big- and it can actually be much worse than too small… think about the consequences of putting something too big into a small hole… ouch), honing your skills in head is a great option for you too, but you should also consider simply being careful with your big guy.

Regardless of size or shape, if you want to please, it’s about technique. Know how to use your instrument, put your head in the game and your chances to please are greatly increased.

Taking notes in bed… because you’re got to know what pleases you too.

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