#OpenLetter: I am ready for a change
Documenting so much of my life online via social media and this website has made manifesting things surreal. Literally, within minutes of thinking something and tweeting about it, someone, somewhere, always always always hears my call and arranges things for me. It freaks me out actually - but how else do you think I went 365 days without a home and living SOLELY on the kindness of social media?
I might not know a lot in life, but I know the art of intention is pretty powerful stuff.
Fact: I am done with dating. I am over over over it. My only problem with that statement though is the fact that I am still single. How can one be done with dating if they're still single? I don't exactly know the answer, but I am aware that I need to work smarter not harder.
Obviously after dating as much as I have the fact that I still haven't found someone is clearly a sign. I have spent almost 9 months working with a modern day shaman, and have changed the real time component of my dating life to attract different guys. I understand that being involved with an artist or public figure in any capacity is always asking for a lot - so I have done my best to lay the proper groundwork.
All this being said, I am ready for the next stage in my life and I am now going to manifest the person I am looking for.
You ready??
Here are the qualities I am looking for ...
1) Awareness. I have to be with someone who is spiritually aware. You don't have to be religious, but you do need to understand that we create our own reality and we live in our own abundance. If you do not understand that fundamental principle I will save us both time and say we will not get along.
2) Passion. I had a date this week where I felt like I literally had to pull out of this guy what he wanted from life. He has a good job, but just does it to do it. When I asked what his passions were or what projects he was working on, he didn't have much. I can't deal with that. I hustle 24/7, and while I'm not looking for someone who hustles as hard, but I DEFINITELY want to find someone who is equally as passionate and as driven as I am. I don't stop because I can't stop and I won't stop. Please please please be passionate about WHATEVER it is in this world you want to do.
3) Intelligent. I can't handle dumb people. I want someone that challenges me and stimulates me intellectually. You don't need to be a member of MENSA but please just have common sense.
4) Loyal. I am Irish, and we are hands down some of the most loyal people you will ever meet. If I let you in my life it means something. Period end of sentence.
5) Family oriented. I love love love my family. It's my mom, dad, and brother vs the world. We're SUPER close and a package deal. I'm not saying everyone has to be besties with their blood family, but have someone somewhere that you care about. Lone rangers scare me.
6) Stable. I lead a pretty whackadoodle noodle lifestyle, but I'm not looking to date a whackadoodle noodle - I actually want someone very grounded and stable. I need to have my adventures, but I want you to be the core and the thing I always come home to.
7) Secure. Secure in every sense of the word. Spiritually grounded, financially sound (or as close as possible), and secure in who you are. By posting my life online I get a lot of emails from guys so understand that it is part of my gig and by no means anything to do with you. Let me deal with it, but understand that I am with YOU for a reason, so please don't be scared by the attention.
In exchange for what I am asking for I promise to be an active listener to your hopes and dreams, in addition to always calling you out on your bullshit (like you will do for me as well). I'm not exactly the most domestic person you will ever meet, but I promise to always make enough money to afford a house cleaner, and am also going to take cooking classes before the end of the year just so I can have a 101 on what to do. Dudes, I'm a REALLY good baker, btw! I've made some MEEAANNN cakes in my day.
I promise to keep doing my self work until my like energy attracts you, but just know that I am looking for you, and I am opening up my heart as much as possible to allow you into my life.
If you are reading this and think this may be you, please message me. I'm looking for you.
#thatisall
