RT: #NerdsUnite: Tales of a Pick Up Artist (I call bullshit. Female Perspective)

Apr 12

Okay, so first up, read this post here that I will be responding to. It's cool, I'll totes be here twiddling my thumbs.

literally.

Alrite, ya back? Rad!

This is fucking bullshit. And I'm not calling Anwar on the BS, I'm calling it on the chick.

Now, I am Irish and as a lot of you know, a drinker. I drink on average two nights a week, and take DAMN PRIDE in my love of craft beer and two buck chuck.

That being said ... I think this woman is total bullshit for saying she was "just too drunk" to have wanted to sleep with Anwar.

This is kinda where it gets dicey though - we now have to measure the degrees of drunkenness.

I can say from personal experience, I only started drinking when I was about 20, and didn't even get drunk for the first time until just before my 21st bday. ::cough cough prude:: This is what happens when you don't go to college, btw.

As much as I drink, I very genuinely have only blacked out once in my life. Said black out, was also caused by someone putting something in my drink. I haven't talked about it on the site because I very genuinely don't know the details ... all I know was I was at the bar, slightly buzzed but DEFINITELY not drunk, and this dude bought me a shot. I didn't see the bartender pour it, I didn't see what happened .25 seconds before. I went over to grab my purse, came back, did the shot, and literally woke up on the floor of our bathroom. It was one of the scariest things ever, but FORTUNATELY I happened to have a friend at the bar who pulled me out of a cab that these people were trying to get me into.

His exact words were, "I've never seen someone so drunk before in all my life."

I later explained to him that it was because I wasn't drunk - I was drugged.

I got SUPPPEERRRR sick the rest of the day, and I believe even the day after. I felt like I had the flu. As is I VVEEERRRRYYYYY rarely even get hung over. Dudes, I take care of my shit. I drink oddles of water when I feel myself getting a bit sloppy, and 100% know when to stop. How do you guys think I'm even able to write so much every day even after a night of drinking? You gotta know your shit when it comes to alcohol consumption.

That being sssaaiiiddd ... I haven't said anything about being drugged before mostly out of not really remembering a damn thing. My very last memory was going to get my purse. I don't even remember what the dude that gave me the shot looked like, nor did I even have ANY idea that my friend was at that bar. Crazy story, but the power of good karma, and the power of living in LA for 8 years and genuinely just knowing a lot of people.

If blacking out is similar to that experience, then yes, I'm SURE she had no memory of anything and was prolly embarrassed in the morning to realize what happened.

HOWEVER, her response was total fucking bullshit as she victimized herself.

I have gone out with Anwar. We kicked it back in December in Florida - he is a HELLA great guy, and TOTALLY the most charismatic person you will ever meet. He does NOT NOT NOT "prey" on women; he friggen holds the club in the palm of his hand!! He's captivating!!

If she was that sloppy then she should have had friends take her home, or put her in a cab. My friend KNEW how "drunk" I was. He grabbed my ass from that cab and took me home himself. I couldn't even walk he said!!!

IF this chick WAS that sloppy, then yeah - maybe. And Anwar should have used better judgement. Me thinks though judging by her memory of things, she wasn't blacked out drunk, more so just embarrassed that she went home with a guy from the bar. That's an issue with morality, not alcohol.

I can't STAAANNNDDDD reading things like this from women saying over and over how the dude is to blame because she was "drunk." No, bitch. You let your slutty self out for the night because alcohol is a lubricant. There's NOTTTHHHHIIINNNGGG wrong with it, just own it! Don't go sitting there victimizing yourself to the dude because he was in the "wrong" and you were "too drunk."

I've been VARIOUS SHADES of drunkenness and I have never EVER slept with someone that I haven't wanted to. Even if it was a one night stand, sure!

Remember Cute Boy Chicago? I had TOTALLY just met him at the bar, and we had an AH-MAZING time. Ain't no shame!! Own your shit, put on your big girl pants and quit crying victim.

Empower yourself!!! You were the one that said, "I want to fuck you!" OWN THAT SHIT BITCH!!! Quit playing victim, it is terribly unflattering.