Fun With #Mirror: Time to move into the field (who wants to go out on a date?)

Mar 26

I hinted at this last night on the Suicide Girl's radio show ... but I just got the thumbs up this morning ... so now I am SO FREAKING EXCITED TO ANNOUNCE that starting this week, I will be taking dudes into the field to help them with their dating-ness.

Here's the pooper scooper ...

So, I'm at an interesting cross road with my personal life. I've been documenting my online dating-ness for almost two years now, and I'm still single. I've been on QUITE the journey with the 103 dates in 9 months and all of the self work I have done in the last year (particularily the last 6 months with the Modern Day Shaman), but now I am ready for the next step, and I am ready for more. I have talked to other "relationship documenters" and they all agree that you cannot cannot cannot document dating in real time. It disrupts the natural ebb and flow of dating, and that's no bueno. I did all of this to eventually HAVE someone ... to eventually get to a point where I actually SOUGHT an intimate relationship. I'm not quite there yet, but I do know I am ready for the next step - and that is taking my dating life offline.

::GASP::

Now, hold your nerdy knickers - here's what I'm going to do in exchange ... right now, I average about two dates a week. What I will do for you guys is take two duderinos in the field a week going out on a mock date, and then providing feedback not only in real time on the actual mock date, but also on the relationship review application, Mirror.net.

90% of all reviews on Mirror are positive or constructive, so I'll obviously make sure I take care of you guys, while staying true to the medium and pointing out some things you guys can work on.

This way too, as Mirror grows and chickadees start searching for you on there before they agree to go out on a date, you guys will already be all set.

You'll get the following on the mock date:

1) Real time feedback. From what you are wearing, to how you are speaking - everything. I will break yo' shit doowwnnnnn!! If you're on OKC and want some dating profile advice, I will happily pull up your profile on my iPhone and give you some tips and tricks on the spot. If you have trouble approaching a woman at the bar, and want some guidance on how to do it - BOOM! I'll help ya out!

2) At the end of the date, I'll analyze you on TNTML and write a review of you on Mirror. I will 100% perserve your identity on TNTML, but on Mirror - that shit be all about you. I actually remain anonymous, but this will be searchable on the site, so again, as it grows and this becomes a standard in dating - you'll already have a good review!

I am hoping through this transparent experience that not only can I learn from you guys, but I can take all this RIDICULOUS knowledge that I have on dates, and help you guys out!! (While at the same time respecting my personal boundaries and hope to develop some intimate relationships from this.)

Unlike the 103 dates in 9 months there are no compatability prerequisites, no ... nothing. You just have to be willing to identify what you are looking for BEFORE we go out on the date, (ex: wanting to learn how to pick up a chick at the bar, or wanting to ask me sex questions ... anything. LITERALLY ANYTHING. I cannot be offended.) be willing to be reviewed on both Mirror and TNTML, ANNNNNDDD you have to buy me a beer. Other than that, I don't want anything else from you loverly people - I'm just as excited to learn from this as you all are.

So there you go!

Now, how to sign up? Drop me an email: JenFriel at TalkNerdyToMeLover dot com or drop me a message on Facebook. And remember too, at the end of these mock dates, you guys are 100% allowed to review me on Mirror as well. I can give AND I can take!! So let's live authentically and see what happens!!!

First mock date will be this Wednesday at 8:30 in Los Angeles, CA. Who wants it?

Contact me!!