Fun with #OKCupid: 3 emails ... 3 different responses
First up, if you haven't read my OKC profile - you can check it out over yonder. Might make some sense to the things guys reply to, haha. But for reals, these are all actual emails I've received in the last 48 hours, and my actual responses back to them. It is through this transparent experience that I hope you all can take away some knowledge on what works and what doesn't in the hopes of making your online dating experiences that much more fanschmastically awesome. YAYYYY ONLINE DATING YAYYY!!! K ... cool ... here we go ...
Wow, this duderino is UNBELIEVABLY unsure of himself. I don't even know where to begin with this one. How do you know that you aren't my type? I specifically don't even mention that in my profile to leave it open to interpretation. Right off the bat like that you're just going to throw up the "I surrender" flag? Super duper lame sauce - and definitely not what I am looking for.
The experiment just was, and I am just being. Like I've said before, it wasn't until I hit date 96 that I actually sat down and counted how many I had been on; I very genuinely was looking for something - but I still haven't found what I'm looking for. Does that make me picky? Sure! But a LOT of the guys were super awesome, so at least I ended up with a lot of friends.
Actual response: None
I literally get asked at LEAST three times a day if dudes can be 104. Newsflash: I still go out on dates just about every week. The experiment, however, is done. There will be no 104, nor am I "counting" my dates anymore.
Actual Response: None
YES YES YES YES YES!!!! Someone finally did it!!!! Someone finally picked one specific detail out of my profile and sent me one specific question from my profile on it!!
THIS. IS. IT. NERDS!! That's all you ever have to say to a chick on OKC to get her to respond. Find ONNNNEEEE thing, and just ask her!! Don't go into the whole kit and caboodle - we're too ADD and time is a wasting! Short and sweet. Added bonus points if you can do it in 140 characters!! =) =) =)
Actual Response: This afternoon? Smashing pumpkins!!
Hope this helps, nerderinos!!!
Break a leg out there!!!
(well not literally, cause that would make a super shitty date. bahhhh you get what I mean)
#nerdsunite
