#Randombling: That Nerdy Chick (another day another domination)

Nov 7

Randombling: A 5 minute long unedited random stream of consciousness produced by a nerd for nerds.

#nowplaying: Thunderheist - Jerk It

And I'm back from SF for the next few days.

I don't know how my liver survived that trip, but I am grateful.

So much is going on right now, it's kinda nuts. First up, this afternoon I am going to be dominating a new slave all while writing a piece for Suicide Girls on how being a domme helps me as an entrepreneur.

Being a domme (for me) isn't sexual, it's psychological. (I discovered that actually when I let a friend of mine dominate me so I could have a first hand exploration in the culture.) Everything about being a good domme is in understanding the subtleties of a scenario.

It's not JUST that I make my slaves wear the hanibal mask ....

... but it's that when they do, I make them sniff the leather first.

That smell then places them in this submissive role which will then allow me to push them further.

I remember being blindfolded and COMPLETELY freaking out when my buddy stomped his boot all around my head as I was laying on the ground. That anticipation and fear took me to this level psychologically that was really fucking hot.

I can't begin to tell you how much of this experience in the last few months has helped me running my own business. Anytime I am negotiating a deal, or going back and forth with someone on something I will literally put on my domme shoes and walk around the apartment in them as I am on the phone. Obvi, no one knows, but I do and I IMMEDIATELY go into that place where there are only two rules:

1) My slaves do everything I tell them.

2) They call me Mistress Jennifer.

So. Fucking. Amazing. and so excited to write this piece in just a few minutes.

On another note ... I COMPLETELY accidentally started dating this actor.

We met online a few weeks back, and HE was the one that actually kept emailing. We then kicked it, and I randomly even bumped into him at the Playboy Mansion when I was there for their Halloween party.

We were obvi still texting at that time, but I was kinda meh. I was just overwhelmed to begin with and honestly starting to question everything I was doing with dating.

We then kicked it again this past weekend and while at one of my favorite bars all these people kept coming up to him.

He's a SUPER humble dude, so anytime he told me about what he did it was more from the writing perspective.

I finally just got semi-pissed and was like, who are you?

I'm on a TV show, he admitted.

(He then told me what network and the name.)

I had heard of it obvi, but I'm not their demographic.

It was so weird. I'm SUPER into pop culture so for me to not know off hand who this dude was just made me laugh. Only in fucking LA, man!!!

Either way, we have another date tonight. Really chill dude. It's hilarious too when I tell him some of my stories he always asks, have you written about that yet?

I then glare at him thinking, I TOTALLY get it when people say they hate dating writers or producers in general as real life experiences so often become story lines. I'm DVRing his show just incase.

Anywho, also have LOADS of traveling coming up. I'll be back in SF for a date from Saturday til Monday. Followed by being in Santa Monica all next week (I'll be living out of the Casa Del Mar with a buddy of mine). Followed by a trip to my 10 year reunion back in CT on Thanksgiving and on the way back I'll be in CO to go skiing. THHHEENNNNNN, I'll be in Florida for my birthday and DC for Christmas. Pretty much once a week til the end of the year I'll be traveling out and about having adventures. Since traveling is on my bliss list this pleases me tremendously.

Anyway, my slave is about to get here and I still have to finish getting ready and "in the mood."

There is something oddly strange about objectifying and humiliating men. They fucking LOVE it, and to see someone in such a vulnerable and raw state is so spectacular.

I'll let you all know when the suicide girls post goes live. This one is going to be juicy!!! =)