#NerdsUnite: Ask That Nerdy Chick (exactly how does one acquire "slaves"?)
It is my goal for 2012 to take a lot of my weird and wonky experiences as a lifecaster and help nerdy peeps out by providing a frank (not shirley) and honest answer to some weird and potentially random questions you may have about life.
Here is a DM I got the other day ...
Dommes are born, not raised. I've always naturally been very submissive in bed, but that was mostly based on the men that I was attracted to. When I actually dominated for the first time it was this …. rush …. like I had never experienced before. It was this moment, and this understanding that my life from this point on was never going to be the same, and my relationship with men was going to be altered forever.
How did I start to get my info?
I lucked out on having a buddy who was into it who allowed me to explore with him in a safe space. I'd suggest at first, reaching out to some people you trust and and asking them if this was something they are interested in as well. My friend only told me about it because I broadcast my life online and he thought it would be something that I would want to explore. He was right, but again like with most things in life, it had to happen on my terms. People can't just "throw" you into this scene, there first has to be a natural curiosity.
So yeah, first reach out to your friends, and secondly (if you don't have anyone you trust or feel open enough to reach out to) - I'd start getting in some domme chat rooms. Sign up for FetLife (social network for fetishes), explore some chat rooms, I've even heard of many dommes finding subs on craigslist. It's definitely not easy finding people, but documenting it on the site certainly helps. Maybe I can help you with some of the superfluous slavery and offer them to come to you? Would you be willing to document your journey as well? I'm all ears.
Either way, thanks for reaching out, and rock on on your journey! Keep me posted along the way.
Got a question? Drop me an email! JenFriel at TalkNerdyToMeLover dot com
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Best of luck out there nerds!!
xoxo <3 @JenFriel
