#NerdsUnite: Ask That Nerdy Chick (will she ever leave him?)
We interrupt this post to bring you a message from our friends over at DateMySchool.com. They're like, awesome, and average THIRTY MINUTES before you find a match. THIRTY MINUTES!!! I did 103 dates in 9 months on some other site and am STILL single. ::sigh:: Date smarter, not harder nerds!!
It is my goal for 2012 to take a lot of my weird and wonky experiences as a lifecaster and help nerdy peeps out by providing a frank (not shirley) and honest answer to some weird and potentially random questions you may have about life.
Here is an email I got this morning ...
Alrite, she has a boyfriend of 4 years yet she is involved with you in a physical manner? Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater - dude, walk away.
"Scare her" my ass, this chick needs to grow a pair of balls and woMAN up and ditch her dude. She's using you as a crutch when what she clearly needs in this scenario is a reality check and a healthy dose of some self work. She's absolutely absolutely absolutely never going to leave him. I'm sorry for the dilemma this places you in, but you have to ask yourself what in this scenario am I resonating with? Why are you allowing this to continue and WHY have you let this go on for a year?
This chick is using you dude, and she has some EPICLY bad dating karma that you shouldn't be involved with anymore.
Cut your losses, get on a dating site, and get back out there. I ASSURE you, there are plenty of fishes in the sea and PLENTY of awesome chicks that would like to celebrate your birthday with you.
This one is a cheater cheater pumpkin eater. Set a boundary, tell her you need to move on, and then actually do it. (Change your number if you have to since these people almost always come back.)
Stay strong, nerderino and keep us posted!!
Got a question? Drop me an email! JenFriel at TalkNerdyToMeLover dot com
ORRRRR you can message me on Facebook and if it's within 140 characters on the twitter!
Best of luck out there nerds!!
xoxo <3 @JenFriel
PS. And thanks for the sponsorship Date My School! You're not only hooking my friends up with awesome dates, but you're putting food in my belly. MMMMMMM foooooooodddddddd ... k bye.
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