Fun with #OkCupid: 3 emails ... 3 different responses
First up, if you haven't read my OKC profile - you can check it out over yonder. Might make some sense to the things guys reply to, haha. But for reals, these are all actual emails I've received in the last 48 hours, and my actual responses back to them. It is through this transparent experience that I hope you all can take away some knowledge on what works and what doesn't in the hopes of making your online dating experiences that much more fanschmastically awesome. YAYYYY ONLINE DATING YAYYY!!! K ... cool ... here we go ...
Actual Response: It's freeing actually, and pretty much the only thing that kept all 103 dates different. I enter conversations with people mid-sentence. I LOOAAATTHHHEEEE polite conversation. I am totally someone that just wants to get to the heart of something, cut out the BS, and get it done. I don't really care to hear about the non-essentials, and it was rad because every.single.dude. just got to the heart of everything. haha, that part worked out well.
I've had quite the opposite effect regarding mystery (and yes, I agree with you regarding having an air of mystique about a dude), guys just assume there is more going on in my noggin. Number one thing I hear over and over ... so, tell me something you haven't published. Dudes, if I did my job, that wouldn't be possible. I think the only thing I don't talk about too much here is my approach to business, but that will be another project. =) This will always be more of a spiritual artistic release. Whoop whoop! Thanks for reaching out!
I think this was supposed to be a diss - not sure though. Hmmmmm k ... moving on.
Acutal Response: None
OMGGG what a great email!!! Personality just OOZES from the page, ANNDD he picked out small details from my profile and asked me to elaborate. Exhibit a) what am I listening to right now is a jab at me always having headphones in my ears ... and exhibit b) is referencing this picture ...
Those are my dance and academic trophies. Boop boop! Good eye! No one has asked me that!
Actual Response: Take over control - afrojack. And from dance and academics. I'm not only bendy but I can pythagorean your theorem. RAWWRR
hahahaaha dude you sound so rad. I get back to LA next week - lets kick it.
Happy online dating nerderinos!!