Fun with #OKCupid: Why do guys think this workkksss!!!
Alrite, so I still use OKC for shits and giggles - well more for the giggles since half the shit dudes send me is HIGH-LARIOUS!
Looky looky the chat that I just had ...
(oh PS this is my current default. Was trying to appear less "vamp" and more of the whackadoodle noodle that I am. Totally worked! Had an increase in page views per week!!!)
I mean, right??? Guys have this approach with me ALL THE TIME on OKC, and it just doesn't work. Again, consider the psychology of the chica behind the page ... I would have NO problem putting up a profile on Adult Friend Finder if that is what I am looking for.
Dudes, ain't no shame!
However, I use OKC for a reason!!! Why are you talking about the physical when that is not at all the reason why I created the profile to begin with?
Also too, you can have too "soft" of an approach with - how is my princess today?
Dudes, this princess saves herself. Those are the polarities ... now that those have been established, find a happy medium!!
I still LOVE this email I got last week. It is ABSOLUTELY PERFECT!!
Calm. Cool. Collected. Just enough of a blend of being a whackadoodle noodle for it to be cute and not crazy.
THIS.EMAIL.WORKS.
The chat?? Not so much.
It's ALLLLLLLLLL about the approach!!!
#kthxbye
Oh, and here's some more info on my latest social experiment!! I'm taking it offline, and meeting boys in bars wearing Effing Gear's location based tees as an ice breaker! (Read more about it here) Was unable to test my theories out in CT, as I was there all week, because I was too busy - but we return to regularily schedule bar hopping this week.
YAY!!!