Fun with #OkCupid: My night with a topless avatar
So, I was on OKC earlier tonight ... and a guy with a default as a topless pic, IMed me.
For some weird reason, it didn't save my initial responses ... so lemme give you a bit of a play by play.
He IMs me ... and my response is ... not interested thank you. I don't dig the douchey-ness. I told him that any guy without a shirt on, in a myspace in the mirror circa 2006 pose makes me run the other way. I also told him how I am able to read people based on just their avatar (courtesy of working in social media), and that I didn't want his type. Not my style. K ... read on:
This guy was actually pretty friggen cool. Very narrow minded, clearly ... look at his default. But bless his heart man ... I used to "not get it" too. I was totally in that space. Good LORD some of my defaults on Myspace were equally absurd. I was desperately searching for things that were already there inside of me. Go figs, rad dude - but not in this lifetime. Maybe in the next one when we're both cats.