#NerdsUnite: Breaking down the steps to ensure you get a kiss at midnight!
<editorsnote> Nerds, meet my buddy Barry. He's a dating coach here in LA, and starting in January he is going to help me out with dating and totes offer up some advice for the community! How friggen RAD is that!!! Here is his latest and greatest. HIT IT BARRY!!! </editorsnote>
(Please note for dudes - swap out the him with her ... and this article is kosher for you too! kthxbye)
#TalkNerdyToMeLover's @DatingCoachB
New Year's Eve is a great opportunity for a first kiss with the guy you wish would make a move. The truth is, connecting with the man of your dreams comes down to a few key moments. The moment he first notices you. The moment he approaches you. The moment he asks you on a date. And, of course, the moment you share your first kiss.
New Year's Eve creates the perfect opportunity for you to finally kiss that guy you want. He might be someone you've been on a couple of dates with, or someone you've known for awhile but never had a chance to get romantic with.
Here's how to make the most of your New Year's Eve this year.
Step One
Make sure you are at the same party as the guy you want to kiss, obviously.
Step Two
Make sure you break the touch barrier early in the night. Start with friendly touching on the arm or upper back. As the night progresses and the champagne flows, see how he reacts to escalated touching on the lower back, or letting your hand linger a little longer. Look into his eyes more. Find reasons to lean in and tell him things (either whispered secrets or speaking loudly over the music). Let your cheeks and bodies brush if possible, but only if it's natural. The more closeness and contact you can promote the better.
Step Three
Flirt a little during the night, if you feel he'll reciprocate. If he is not reciprocating, he may not be interested enough in you to kiss you. One way to get your flirting going on the topics of romance and intimacy is to ask him to look back on how this past year was in terms of romance and passion, and then both share what you want the New Year to bring you in terms of passion.
Step Four
Allow the tension to build. Don't disarm or defuse the sexual tension. As the evening goes on, you may feel a little electricity or attraction in the air. Let it hang there, especially as you get nearer to midnight. Don't undercut it with self-deprecating comments, or discussing 'downer' topics like sick relatives or divorce. Stick to fun, sexy vibes and looking forward to the New Year.
Step Five
Close to midnight, compliment him on some quality of his that you really love. Touch him affectionately. Keep eye contact.
Step Six
Keep him close as the countdown begins. Put your hand on his lower back, or on his chest. Smile at him and let your bodies lean against each other. When the countdown hits zero and the party poppers go off, turn to face him. Lean in for a kiss. When you get about a foot from his face you'll notice if he turns his head slightly to get a kiss on the cheek ("Let's just be friends." or "I haven't decided yet.) If he continues to face you then finish coming in for the kiss!
Step Seven
Kiss him! Match his style of kissing. Open-mouthed if he's passonate and into it. Closed lips to start if that's how he is. But you can escalate the kiss with caressing, and by slightly parting your own lips to see if he follows suit. (More detailed tips on kissing will be available in my upcoming booklet "Kisses That Seal The Deal").
If you aren't at the same party as the man you want, then text him playfully throughout the night. At midnight, send him a playful "kiss" text, humorously telling him that if he were there he would have gotten the best kiss he'll get all year. If he is disappointed, you know he wants that kiss the next time you see him!
Have a Happy New Year and HAVE FUN FLIRTING!
Your Dating-Coach,
Barry
#nerdsunite
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