#NerdsUnite: 24 year old virgin with an unfortunate first time
Dudes, this comment was just left on the story of how I lost my virginity ... and I thought it was so interesting, it actually deserved its own post. Read onnnnnn ...
Wow. First off, thank you for sharing. Really really brave of you.
So last night was your first time receiving oral and having vaginal sex? That's 0-60 right there! Wow!
First off, you have options. I would recommend going down to the pharmacy immediately and purchasing Plan B. It's a single pill (costs I think around $50), and taken within 72 hours of an incident like that can prevent unplanned pregnancy.
Dude, these things happen. The most important thing to do is breathe, and understand what your options are. Think back to your days of health class as well, she would have to be ovulating for the sperm to fertilize the egg which would cause pregnancy. If she just had her period chances are good that you are fine. But no matter what, just get her the Plan B just incase - it will help keep you calm for the next 28 days.
Also too dude, what's with all the self deprication in this comment?? 2 pump chump? Come on, man - you're better than that, but if you don't see it no one else will. Life is reflective duderino. You're not going to attract that kind of attractive, intelligent, confident woman unless you start seeing YOURSELF as attractive, intelligent, and confident.
Screw what other people think about sex, and losing their virginity. AT LEAST 70% of my guy friends have all told me the same story - they all wanted to wait, then lost it to some random girl drunk one night. It happens, so what! You're not alone. Sex is a big commitment - your body is very literally merging with someone else's ... that is a BIG BIG DEAL!!
Be gentle with yourself, and stay strong.
All my love and all my heart, thanks for reaching out!