Fun with #OkCupid: Yep ... I just had a date that had no idea I was a lifecaster
Alrite, so I just got back from another date. Cue 4sq checkin:
Oh my goodness ... first off, I have hung out with so many dudes there in the last few weeks that I sincerely need to switch it up. Not all dates either, just dudes ... but I feel like the bartender is catching on ... sneaky lil bastard.
Alrite for reals, just got back from a date ... and the guy did not read my profile on OKC. Seriously.
Here is the exact disclaimer on my OKC profile ...
K ... second paragraph .... get it? I post that so I don't ever have to worry about guys wondering about what I do. This guy, bless his heart, didn't read that. Dude, totally get it - some people just look at a pretty picture and say, me man you woman ... lets get it on. HAHAH! Furthermore, I totally contacted this guy a while back first. So yeah ... I get it.
All that being said, I WISHEEEDDD TO GOODNESS I had a camera to capture his face when I said that well, I'm a lifecaster and here on the site we have this dating coach, and I post my reactions to dates ... blah blah blah.
He goes, so am I material or a date? I said both! I am hoping for a lover, (I am a horny horny horny bitch that needs to get laid), but either way - I end up with content. Total win win for me! He sulked and took a sip of his drink.
It was INCREDIBLE watching his body language change at that point. I was incredibly conscious in sitting with open arms, and semi open legs for a chick in a skirt, that were pointed towards him as to indicate interest as I genuinely was. Incredibly attractive guy.
This guy was so so so cool, but just so sad. I felt that when I shook his hand. Literally - it was THAT intense that I picked up ... oh la la no me gusta. Again though, every interaction and every experience is something that I could learn from in life ... so I sat there, and listened ... and bless his heart, but this guy was just so sad. He opened up later as to reasons why and what not ... but yeah man, first impressions on energy = damn near 100% accurate!!
He told me about his family, and his upbringing which created his current state in consciousness ... totally resonated with him, if it was a year and 3 months prior. I felt that he was just so desperate for this creative outlet. He's a musician, and definitely a creative being through and through ... but working this 9-5 that he doesn't really like, only does to pay the bills. I asked him, what were bills? When I stopped paying mine, I didn't cease to exist - I just outran all of the creditors. I lead a very very very very very simple life. IMHO happiness is from within, and when you feel it ... you FEEEEEEEELLLLLL it, and nothing else really matters. When you find what you love to do in life, money follows. We talked about a bunch of spiritual stuff, and my beliefs in social media creating accountability for thoughts, positive or negative ... and yada yada. Bottom line, we put out SOOOOOOOO much more than we ever realize. Watching this dude try and hide it all from me was alarming. I just wanted to give him a big big big hug. Literally, a hug. And next time, I think I just might if I ever feel the impulse again. This dude just felt so sad, and he never even had to say a word to me.
Great great great guy, I really mean that ... but very different stages in life. If he didn't read this website beforehand, I guarantee you he is now ... so *waves* hi date! Really appreciated you and your time ... and will foh reals check out your next gig ... but its content babe. No love. Lo siento mucho.
#Nerds Do Not Unite
Wanna date me? Click here to read my profile on OkCupid ... warning, I come with a disclaimer.
PS. You know its a weird night when you come home with UBS on your hands ...
Unidentified. Blue. Shit.
Seriously ... where did this come from??? Did I accidentally mug a 1st grader? Weird ...