#NerdsUnite: How To Get a Guy To Chase You
Talk Nerdy To Me®’s @staffwriter
It’s not easy to get a guy to chase you. In fact, it can be downright impossible if you don’t know what you’re doing. But with the right approach, it is definitely possible. And in this article, I am going to teach you everything you need to know in order to make a man chase after you like crazy.
Give Him All the Feels
First, let me ask you a question: What is it that makes men want to chase women? Is it your looks? Your personality? Or something else entirely? Well, the answer is actually a little bit of all of those things. But at the end of the day, what really matters most is how YOU make him feel.
Do you make him feel powerful and in control? Or do you make him feel like a helpless little boy who needs your approval and attention? If you want a guy to chase you, then it’s important that you start making him feel like a man. How do you do that? By giving him all of your attention and letting him know that you think he’s amazing. Make him feel like the only thing that matters in the world. When you make a man feel like that, he will naturally start chasing after you.
Flirt With Him
Next, another way to get a guy to chase you is by flirting with him. Now, I’m not talking about being sleazy or over-the-top. I’m talking about subtle flirting that will make him want more. How do you do that? Well, one way is to touch him lightly on the arm or hand when you’re talking to him. Or you can give him a little smile when he does something funny. Basically, you want to let him know that you find him attractive and that you’re interested in him.
Make Him Feel Wanted
Another thing that will make a guy chase you is if he feels like you’re not easily available. In other words, make him feel like he needs to work for your attention. How do you do that? Well, one way is to be a little bit harder to get. Don’t always agree to go out with him or return his text messages right away. Make him wait a little bit. And when you finally do respond, make sure it’s something that he really wants to hear. For example, if he asks you what you’re doing, don’t just say “nothing”. Give him a little bit of detail about what you’re up to and let him know that you’d love for him to come join you.
Make Him Feel Like the Hero
Finally, another way to make a guy chase you is by making him feel like the hero. How do you do that? Well, one way is to make him feel needed. Let him know that you can’t do everything by yourself and that you need his help. Another way is to make him feel powerful. Give him compliments and let him know how much you appreciate him. And finally, make sure you always listen to what he has to say. When a guy feels like he’s the hero, he will do anything to keep chasing you.
Don’t Ignore Him
It’s tempting to “play hard to get” so much that you completely stop showing any interest. This often backfires. A better approach is to give him episodic attention. Respond to some texts, but not all. Go out with him sometimes, but not all the time. If you make yourself scarce, he’ll want you more. But if you’re always unavailable, he’ll eventually get tired of trying and move on.
Live Your Best Life
Lastly, the best way to get a guy to chase you is by living your best life. In other words, make sure you’re taking care of yourself and putting your best foot forward. Dress nicely, take care of your hair and makeup, and just generally be positive and happy. Guys love when a woman is confident and has her own life together. And when he sees that you’re living your best life, he will start to want to be a part of it.
How To Make a Guy Chase You After a Breakup
If you want a guy to chase you after a breakup, you’ll need to make him feel a sense of loss. Men love the thrill of the hunt, and they don’t want to chase after something they already have. By making him feel like he’s losing you, you’ll make him want to win you back.
There are a few things you can do to make a guy chase you after a breakup:
Don’t be too available. If you’re always available when he calls or texts, he’ll quickly lose interest. Make sure you take some time for yourself and don’t always be so ready to jump back into a relationship with him.
Show him that you’re moving on. If you start dating other guys or hanging out with your friends more, he’ll start to realize that he’s losing you. This will make him want to chase after you even more.
Be flirty and playful. A little bit of flirtation can go a long way in getting a guy to chase you after a breakup. Be flirtatious and playful in your conversations with him, and he’ll start to see how much he’s missing out on.
By following these three tips, you’ll be able to make a guy chase you after a breakup.
The Biggest Mistake Women Make When Trying to Get a Guy To Chase Them
The biggest mistake is showing too much interest too soon. You need to show him some attention so that he has hopes of winning you over. But not too much interest all at one time.
Give him a little interest, a little hope, and then let the psychological dynamics of human attraction do the rest.
Final Thoughts
So, there you have it – everything you need to know in order to get a guy to chase you. Just use these tips and watch as he starts pursuing you like crazy.But remember, it takes time and effort to make a man fall in love with you. So don’t give up if things don’t happen overnight. Be patient and keep doing the things that matter most. Good luck!
