#Fact: Being Content With Yourself
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Question: "How can I be more like my friends who are always getting laid and having girls literally throw themselves at them... This feeling of envious emptiness is driving me crazy.
I want to know how to deal with being single and to regain the confidence and esteem that I've lost because of rejection and betrayal. I'm tired of thinking about girls 24/7 and want to go back to being comfortable with who I am."
In order to be happy with yourself, you have to accept the good bad and ugly.
"Yes, I've messed up. Yes, I don't get all the girls like my friends, but that's okay. Eventually I will get girls coming my way, and EVEN IF I DON'T I will be just fine."
(That last part is key. If you can master that, you'll be set for life)
It's not an easy process and takes literally years to really get good at it, but the work you do on yourself is worth it.
Everyday, for starters, focus on one - three things you're great at, and say, "I'm proud of you. You're awesome." Then come up with one - three insecurities, things you wish you could change, and tell yourself that you are the exact opposite (regardless if it's currently untrue. This is all about POSITIVE thinking).
Ex: Reality thinking: "I think about girls 24/7."
POSITIVE Thinking: "I am comfortable with who I am."
Everyday, keep enforcing your strengths and changing your words on your weakness to then become strengths themselves.
Act as who you want to become & over time it will become true. A self-fulfilling prophecy.
It's already worked so far. You kept feeling down & sad about yourself, so you became an increasingly diffident person.
So now, flip the switch! Become a happy, confident, positive person who only needs themselves to make them smile, and that in turn is who you will become.
#fact
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