#TalkNerdyToMeLover's @saintpepsi
It's an unspoken game that people never really know they are playing until they lose. Worst part is, you only know you are playing when you lose. You get that feeling like you had one point between you and the opposing team and its all riding on you and you fuck it up. That's the feeling except even worse because in this game its all about who can move on first. I don't mean hook up either. Rebound sex isn't moving on. For the most part, it's just finding something to fill that void. So, I will explain in sports terminology, though I shouldn't be cause I know jack shit about sports. We can call rebound sex an assist. It's a step you take after a relationship to moving on but not really moving on. Or if you're a virgin, you're holding on to that V card like it's a golden ticket to heaven. Let's just say you and your computer have a scheduled date every night. See this hits the nerd community way hard because we never know we're playing games. Unless you're online then we pwn the noobs. So the race begins after about a week after you break up. If you get into a relationship the
day after you break up, that's a technical foul. You will then be frowned upon by all associated with you. It also probably means you were cheating on your partner. That's fucked up and shame on you, dick. If you were playing by the legit rules, it would start eight weeks after you break up. That's the proper amount of time one should spend mourning. Who has time to mourn for loves lost now-a-days though? You gotta jump back into that game and play like you want to win the gold. So once you have the rebound out of the way, (cause you don't want to pursue the girl you really want right out of the gates. She'll feel like a rebound and then you'll lose her), the first thing you have to do is stop actively looking for someone to replace your X. The important part of that last sentence is “replace your X”. No one wants to be a replacement. Substituting someone for your X won't end well. Plus it's like paying off the ref so you can win this game. You're looking for a proper end game first to truly move on. In my last relationship, I lost this game after we broke up. I felt she found the relationship before I did and I was left losing that game. She may argue as I have recently found someone amazing. However, in the moment, she moving on was how I saw it so I did what any guy would do and got myself into a stupid short-term-nothing that got me nowhere. I should have just waited until now so I could have met the girl I'm with presently and skipped that embarrassing speed bump. Oh well. Ya live and learn. So, even though it's an impossibility to know just where we will find ourselves after a relationship, you can know for sure that at some point you or your X will find themselves having lost the race to X success.
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